Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Relationships- 5 Compliments To Win Her Over

A woman is a changeable feast for the eyes and throughout the month, she will go through more costume changes than Madonna. There are five key things about her appearance that radically change every two days. If you can tune yourself into these 5 things, you will be able to score a huge number of brownie points and seriously go up in her estimation. I know you aren’t interested in whether she is wearing a Victoria’s Secrets bra or a La Senza one, as long as you can get to cup her breasts. You don’t care what shoes she wears as long as she doesn’t take them off when you have her propped up. My argument is that the more you notice these girlie items and let her know you’ve noticed them, the more frequently will you get to cup her breasts and prop her up. Get it?

1. Her Hair
A woman’s hair is her crowning glory and the litmus paper by which she responds to everything around her. If she has a terrific style and a sharp cut, if it looks great, shiny and clean, then she’s on top of the world. If it’s dirty or has split ends or she hasn’t had a decent cut for months and can’t decide whether to grow it out or cut it short, she’s bound to be moody and irritable.

Xpert Compliment: You can really score big here by understanding her problem and suggesting a solution: “I know this stylist who worked with Vouge on a shoot. I will book an appointment.” Or you could at least notice when it’s actually going good: “You hair looks fabulous.” Or even better, “Baby, your hair is looking better than Katrina Kaif’s does on her good hair days.” Please, please don’t even attempt to run your fingers through her perfectly groomed hair. Unless you’re in bed with her. An immensely admiring look accompanied by an Xpert compliment should do the trick.

2. Her Weight
Have you ever heard a woman who did not discuss her weight gain or weight loss during the course of a day? All women are obsessed with their weight. Obsessed. Generally, women put on weight really quickly (notice the weight never goes in the right places) and lose it painfully slowly. However, when they do, you need to notice, particularly if they have been sweating extra hard on the treadmill or trying out a new no chocolate-no ice-cream diet.

Xpert Compliment: Best way of dealing with this is to anticipate the inevitable question – “Do I look big in this?” or “Do you think I have a fat bottom?” – is by going on a pre-emptive strike. Simply look at her semi-quizzically and say something like, ‘Babe, have you lost weight?’ She won’t give you the pleasure of knowing, but she will be glowing from inside.

3. Her Clothes
She’s probably spent about five hours shopping for the right outfit to wear for you on her first date. So the least you can do is notice. Confident older women may have a set look that they casually slip into for the ritual of coupling; younger women who lack the required poise usually try on a variety of outfits, so don’t be shocked if she seems to be trying too hard and makes an exhibition of herself.

Xpert Compliment: “No, those pink leather boots look awesome – They match your pink contact lenses perfectly.”

Source By: MensXpert.com

Monday, April 14, 2008

Dating & Sexuality Tips - Body Language Secrets

Even though looks are definite assets in the game of seduction, they won’t take you too far if the all essential chick magnet is missing from your personality. The Player here is talking about body language.

Believe The Player when he says this: Women are actually ten times better than men at reading non verbal gestures or body language. While you might have heard this exact same thing from other personality/dating gurus, I am pretty sure they didn’t go into how this piece of information can affect your chances with women.

Have you ever walked up to a girl and started a conversation but realised that no matter what you said, you just couldn’t get her attention. It was as if she created a shield around herself like the Invisible Woman from the Fantastic Four that you couldn’t break with your words.

What if I told you that one of the reasons for your failure with women might be your body language?

In fact, recent researches indicate that 90% of all communication is body language. This basically means that it’s not so much the words that you say, but how you say them that matters.

It is not what you say; it is how you say it!
As women are more intuitive than men are, they can instantly pick up on things that might have taken you several weeks or months to notice. The first few minutes of interaction enable her to read deeper into your personality than you could have possibly imagined. So while you might be saying all the right things - things that she actually wants to hear from you, your words fail to convince her at a deeper level because you body language is conveying the exact opposite.

If you are repeatedly failing to attract beautiful women in your life, that’s probably because there are a number of things that need to be changed in the way you carry, hold and present yourself.

Listed below are some of the most common body language blunders that that get in the way of men as they try to portray their high value to a woman.

Source By: MensXpert.com